Congratulations to the class of 2013! You hold the future. Whether you are gong to work, going to college, or doing a little of both, take the time to assess what you want. Don’t live for the moment. Stupid decisions are often hard to undo.
On the other hand, no one expects you to know your life course at 18. You are young enough to poke around in life and see what appeals to you. This is also a time to explore. Just keep goals in mind and don’t lose your focus.
Make sure life and your new freedom isn’t just about the next party or some special hottie du jour. There is a lot more to each person than their appearance. Not everyone is “cute.” Remember to chose close friends carefully. Don’t be too quick to apply ‘give everyone the benefit of the doubt.’ Why should you give anyone the benefit of the doubt? Trust your own instincts and your gut. If you feel ewwwwy about someone, there is probably a reason. Distance yourself. Making good people choices now is critical. Mom and Dad aren’t going to always be there to arrange your play dates. Rely on their wisdom.
Ahhhhhhh too much pontificating, Moon. Anyone else have some advice for the graduating class of 2013? I have a special person graduating tonight. Congratulations, Courtney and everyone else too!!! Carpe Diem.